22. Refining my identity
Two Canadian passports in one hand
Introduction
My identity is a fusion of three rich cultures—Congolese, Ugandan, and Canadian. Each aspect of my heritage is more than just a reflection of where I’ve lived; it’s a testament to the diverse experiences that have shaped my worldview. But as I revisit these influences, I find that each layer of my identity deserves a closer examination—a deeper understanding of how these cultures continue to shape who I am today.
Congolese roots: the soul of Kinigi
Kinigi, my birthplace, is more than just a village in eastern Congo—it’s the essence of my cultural identity. The traditions of Kinigi are not just memories; they are living practices that continue to influence my daily life. The warm greetings that I cherish are more than mere gestures; they are symbolic of the deep respect and communal bonds that defined my upbringing. Every handshake and embrace is a reaffirmation of my connection to others—a reflection of the unity that Kinigi instilled in me.
The celebrations in Kinigi were not just about festivity; they were about reinforcing community ties. These gatherings taught me the importance of collective joy and shared experiences. Today, whenever I celebrate with my family, I’m reminded of the unbreakable bonds of kinship that Kinigi fostered in me. The music of Kinigi, with its powerful chants and rhythms, still resonates within me, guiding how I connect with others and find harmony in my life.
Ugandan influence: faith, language, and sport
My time in Kampala, Uganda, introduced me to a more modern and religious way of life, shaping my identity in profound ways. The English language, which I first encountered in the city’s primary schools, has become a crucial tool for self-expression. It’s not just a means of communication; it’s a bridge that connects my past experiences with my current reality.
The faith that I cultivated in Kampala is more than just religious practice; it’s a source of hope and resilience that I carry with me every day. The weekly gatherings for prayer and worship were more than rituals—they were moments of reflection and renewal that continue to influence my outlook on life. The love of football, which I embraced in Kampala, is not just a hobby; it’s a reminder of the joy and camaraderie that sports can bring, reflecting the communal spirit that I value so deeply.
Canadian integration: charity and contribution
Canada has not only welcomed me as a citizen but also as an active participant in its community. The charity I experienced here is not just about receiving help; it’s about learning the importance of giving back. The Regina Open Door Society (RODS) and other organizations taught me that charity is a two-way street—an exchange of kindness that enriches both the giver and the receiver.
This sense of charity has inspired me to contribute actively, whether through volunteering or blogging. In Canada, I’ve learned that helping others is a way to strengthen the community and build lasting connections. My blog is a testament to this value, as I use it to share insights, offer support, and connect with readers on a deeper level.
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