21. Blogging as a mirror of identity

A keyboard, pens, a notebook, and a pair of glasses on a white background

Starting a blog was an intimidating prospect. The idea of opening up and sharing my personal life with the world was daunting. But as I reflected on my journey, I realized that my blog could be more than just a platform for my thoughts—it could be a way to explore and express the complex identity that I’ve built over the years, shaped by my experiences in Congo, Uganda, and Canada.

In Kinigi, Congo, where I was born, the traditions of my village were deeply rooted in community and connection. The warm greetings, the joyful celebrations, and the music that filled the air all played a crucial role in shaping my sense of self. These cultural practices were more than just rituals; they were expressions of who we were as a people. Blogging, I’ve come to realize, offers a similar opportunity for expression—an outlet where I can share my experiences, my thoughts, and my identity with others.

Uganda, where I spent a significant part of my life, added another layer to my identity. The modernity of Kampala, coupled with the deep religious faith that permeated the city, introduced me to new ways of thinking and living. The English language became a bridge between my past and my future, enabling me to communicate my evolving identity in a new cultural context. In many ways, blogging is an extension of this linguistic journey—a way to articulate the complexities of my identity across different cultures.

Canada, where I now call home, has further enriched my understanding of who I am. The charity and community spirit I encountered in Saskatchewan and Ontario have inspired me to give back, whether through volunteering or writing. My blog is a reflection of this Canadian influence—a space where I can explore the values of kindness, generosity, and inclusion that I’ve come to cherish.

Blogging has become more than just a creative outlet; it’s a mirror reflecting the diverse facets of my identity. Each post is an exploration of my Congolese, Ugandan, and Canadian selves, a way to reconcile the different parts of my life and present them to the world. In sharing my story, I’m not just telling others who I am—I’m also discovering it for myself.

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