27. Life and death through my cultural lens
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Introduction
My identity is a complex tapestry woven from the experiences of living in Congo, Uganda, and Canada. Each of these cultures has taught me valuable lessons about life, death, and what it means to live with purpose. As I reflect on my journey, I realize that understanding and accepting death is an integral part of understanding who I am and how I choose to live.
Kinigi’s perspective: the circle of life
In Kinigi, Congo, where I was born, life and death were viewed as natural parts of the same cycle. The community’s deep connection to the land and the traditions that honored ancestors created a profound respect for the process of life and death. Death was not something to be feared but rather a passage to be respected and understood.
The traditions in Kinigi, such as the celebrations of life that often included music, dance, and communal gatherings, were ways of acknowledging the contributions of those who had passed while reinforcing the continuity of life. These practices taught me that death is not an end, but a transition—a moment in the ongoing story of the community. This perspective has shaped how I approach both life and death, with a focus on living fully and honoring the legacy of those who came before me.
Kampala’s influence: faith in the face of mortality
In Uganda, where I spent a significant part of my life, the intersection of faith and modernity offered a different perspective on death. Kampala, with its vibrant religious life, provided a framework for understanding mortality through the lens of faith. Death was often seen as a return to a higher power, a release from the physical world into a spiritual one.
Faith, in Kampala, was not just about religious rituals—it was about finding meaning and comfort in the face of life’s greatest uncertainties. The prayers, the hymns, and the community support that surrounded moments of loss were all ways of coping with the inevitability of death. These practices reinforced the idea that life is a journey toward a greater purpose, and that death, while a parting, is also a reunion with the divine.
This understanding has deeply influenced how I view my own mortality. It has taught me to live with intention, knowing that each day is a step closer to a spiritual fulfillment that transcends the physical. My faith guides me, offering peace and purpose as I navigate the complexities of life and the certainty of death.
Canadian reflection: living with purpose in the present
Canada, where I now reside, has introduced me to a more pragmatic approach to life and death. Here, the focus is often on living well—on making the most of the time we have and ensuring that our lives have a positive impact on others. This perspective aligns with the Canadian values of charity, community service, and inclusivity.
In Canada, I’ve learned that living with purpose means being present in the moment, contributing to the community, and making a difference in the lives of others. Death, while inevitable, is not something to dwell on; instead, the focus is on living a life that is rich in meaning and connection. This approach has encouraged me to be more active in my community, to give back, and to live in a way that reflects the values I hold dear.
Conclusion: life, death, and identity
My experiences in Congo, Uganda, and Canada have given me a unique perspective on life and death. These cultures have taught me that death is not something to fear but to understand and respect. It is a natural part of the human experience, one that offers an opportunity for reflection, growth, and spiritual fulfillment. By embracing these lessons, I’m able to live with purpose, knowing that my life is a reflection of the rich cultural heritage that has shaped me.
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