26. Showing my identity
A woman with an out-stretched hand hiding her face
Introduction
In writing, they say it’s better to show than to tell. This principle doesn’t just apply to storytelling on the page; it’s a powerful way to understand and express identity. As someone whose life spans three distinct cultures—Congo, Uganda, and Canada—I’ve learned that showing who I am through my actions, traditions, and experiences speaks louder than any words I could write.
Kinigi’s influence: the unspoken bonds of community
In Kinigi, Congo, where I was born, identity was less about what you said and more about how you lived. The people of Kinigi didn’t need to articulate their values—they showed them through their actions. The warm greetings, the communal celebrations, and the harmonizing music were all expressions of the deep bonds that connected us.
For example, a simple handshake in Kinigi wasn’t just a formality; it was a gesture that conveyed respect, solidarity, and mutual understanding. The way we celebrated together, with laughter, shared meals, and song, was a powerful way to show our unity and collective joy. These actions, more than words, demonstrated who we were as a community, and they continue to influence how I interact with the world today.
Kampala’s impact: the interplay of faith and modernity
In Uganda, where I spent a significant part of my life, the dynamic interplay of faith and modernity shaped my identity in profound ways. Kampala was a city where actions spoke volumes—whether it was the devotion shown in weekly prayer gatherings or the energy of a football match that brought the community together.
Faith, for instance, was not something people merely talked about; it was something they lived. The dedication to prayer, the reverence in worship, and the acts of kindness shown to neighbors were all ways in which faith manifested itself in everyday life. These were not just religious practices; they were lived expressions of belief, shaping my understanding of what it means to live a life of purpose and conviction.
Through my blog, I aim to show these aspects of my identity, sharing stories that reflect the influence of faith and community in my life. By illustrating how these elements have shaped me, I hope to connect with readers on a deeper level, offering them a glimpse into the cultural richness that informs who I am.
Canadian expression: the practice of charity and inclusion
Now, living in Canada, I’ve embraced a culture that values charity, inclusion, and community service. These are not just ideals that Canadians talk about—they are principles that are shown through action. Whether it’s volunteering at a local shelter, participating in community events, or simply offering a helping hand to a neighbor, the Canadian way is one of doing, not just saying.
In Canada, I’ve learned that showing my identity means actively contributing to the community. It’s about putting into practice the values of kindness, generosity, and inclusivity that I’ve come to cherish. Through my involvement in various charitable activities and through this blog, I aim to show—not just tell—how these values have become an integral part of my identity.
Conclusion: showing my identity through action
Identity is not something that can be fully captured in words. It’s something that is lived, shown through our actions, traditions, and the ways we interact with the world. For me, the cultural influences of Congo, Uganda, and Canada have taught me that who I am is best expressed through what I do. By continuing to show these aspects of my identity in my daily life and through my blog, I hope to inspire others to reflect on and express their own identities in meaningful ways.
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